My Approach

The first couple of sessions are dedicated to gathering stories from each partner:

• what your goal is

• where're you're at and where you want to go.

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I gather enough information to name the problem. This can take 1 to 3 sessions. When a challenge that has been named resonates with you, we frame the issue into a pattern that you've become stuck in.

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Over the next few sessions, constantly drawing on praxis, we identify and work on the losing strategies that hold you in the pattern, until we work our way through learning and practicing communication skills that will get more of what you want in your relationship: the ability of moving through the disharmony ( arguments that lead to distancing) more quickly, with more maturity and with less collateral damage.  

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By the end of our work together, through relational education, you will be equipped with specific relational skills that yield lasting change for relational success.